I had forgotten just how freeing it can be to just let go and draw.
I heard the song "Stars" by Grace Potter and the Nocturnals while I was studying for an exam that I have, ahem, tomorrow, and I was inspired. I don't mean to sound pretentious - I am not often struck by inspiration, as it were. And the art work isn't necessarily that technically good, so I'm not really boasting; probably no one would hang it on their wall.
I don't care.
I don't care because it feels GOOD to have an idea and then be able to represent it visually on paper. It is cool that a song can speak to you in such away that makes you see things, feel things (not in a way that is psychologically concerning, of course =P). Also it feels empowering to be able to put something down on paper and not worry about whether it's good or not. It does not matter because it is mine and no one is grading it, for once.
I am my own harshest critic, as many people are these days, but the little voice inside my head is definitely augmented by people critiquing me and my work (school and otherwise) and my life everyday.
Where is this writing going? I am rambling a bit; I have not blogged in quite some time.
My point is:
Create something for yourself.
Do something that makes you happy and don't worry if others like it - after all, it doesn't matter, right?
Also, listen to this song. =) So long for now! I'm sure it will be months before I'm inspired to blog again. <3
Ironically, I proofread this blog before posting. I kind of want to kick myself and pat myself on the back at the same time... Okay, bye for real!
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
Thursday, September 13, 2012
Best Advice I Can Give Right Meow
Hello all. I don't blog very much anymore. Rats.
Time to break that cycle, at least for now. I'm going to give some advice. People don't seem to like it when I shove advice in their face in person, so I'm going to give it to the public to read at their leisure. baha
As many of you know, I am in college these days. This puts me in new situations all the time with people I've never met, having new experiences left and right, blah blah blah... So it has somewhat given me a new perspective on how to deal with people and certain things. Hmmm. That's vague. Anyway. On to the advice. (Hands up if you can tell I'm not in an English class this semester!)
Another preliminary disclaimer: This list is totally random. A lot of things will come out of left field, but they still have merit! Roll with the awkward order. Get it, girl.
Time to break that cycle, at least for now. I'm going to give some advice. People don't seem to like it when I shove advice in their face in person, so I'm going to give it to the public to read at their leisure. baha
As many of you know, I am in college these days. This puts me in new situations all the time with people I've never met, having new experiences left and right, blah blah blah... So it has somewhat given me a new perspective on how to deal with people and certain things. Hmmm. That's vague. Anyway. On to the advice. (Hands up if you can tell I'm not in an English class this semester!)
Another preliminary disclaimer: This list is totally random. A lot of things will come out of left field, but they still have merit! Roll with the awkward order. Get it, girl.
- Pour your own drinks. Always. Always. Make this a rule. Alcoholic or not, YOU should be in charge of any liquid you consume. Stay safe, yo.
- Never, ever cheat on someone. It sucks getting broken up with. It sucks being the one who breaks the relationship. What reeeeeally sucks is getting cheated on. Don't be the cheater. Be the better person and just cut it off before things get worse than they have to be.
- Don't count anyone out. In life, and especially in college (WHOA grandiose statements, yay), you'll meet a lot of people. Whenever you approach someone new, try to see the best in them and you might be surprised at the connections you'll make with random people all over the place. The tiny, seemingly insignificant connections with strangers are what make new friendships. Well, they're a good start anyway.
- Don't pass judgement on people's religious views and/or sex lives. It's not up to you. The sooner you figure that out, the better off you'll be.
- Always say hi to everyone you know. Don't let it get weird - if you see someone, wave or smile or say something right away. Otherwise you might get that awkward "Did she see me? Should I say hi? A little bit late now, huh Darce? She can't see you waving now. Crap. That'll be fun when I see her in class tomorrow." Yep. Just a wave, man. Makes life easier.
- Let your freak flag fly. People in college are weird. The people who have clear senses of themselves and are outgoing get noticed and are appreciated. Make a weird joke, say what's on your mind. If people laugh, you're in good company. If they don't, move on to the next group that will laugh at your bad jokes. (That's what I do. Ha. Ha.)
- Going along with the last point... speak up in weird places. In the elevator, the line at the food court, in the classroom before the professor gets there... Another great way to meet people and be obnoxious and get away with it. Oops. Did I type that?
- Go to class. Duh, right? Wrong. Even if you don't *always* read the textbook, you'll learn so much more having the material be put into more colloquial terms by the professor. There's some research that I heard about once upon a time that I never actually saw any study to back it up, BUUUUUT it said that you have to read/see/hear something 17 times to learn it and remember it. Something like that. Well, I don't know how accurate that is, but hearing something once more in class sure doesn't hurt!
- Talk about what you're learning in class with friends. It gives conversation a lot more depth, and it will make your discussions much more interesting. Not to mention, you understand concepts and ideas so much better when you explain them to someone else.
- Never use "text speak" when writing a paper. Even if it's just a rough draft. Don't write sentences like the one I typed immediately before this one. (Whoops.) if u do, it makes u look stoopid, lol jk but 4 realz. Also, don't write things like "This essay will blah de blah," or "In this paper I will cough cough cough." It's obnoxious. Show me, don't tell me. (You're welcome, Mrs. J.)
- Have someone you can talk to who is removed from your group of friends. It might be a family member or friend back home, or even someone nearby you like talking to but runs in different circles. You can vent, discuss, get a different perspective and/or reality check when things get dramatic or weird. It's nice.
- Get out of your room to study if you can't concentrate there. You do SO MUCH in your room, so it's easy to get distracted. Eating, facebooking, sleeping, talking to your roommate... See? Find a new space to study, where your sole purpose for being in this place is to study. That is precisely what the library is for. Or you can find a different quiet building on campus to frequent when you need to hit the books. You need quiet, comfortable seating, good light, some sort of table or writing surface, and a new location dedicated ONLY to studying. Check? Good to go.
I feel kind of pompous writing this. Hmmm. It's not like I'm an expert at being a college student or anything. I'd say I'm middle of the road. But we can all learn from each others' triumphs and mistakes, right?
Cool. See you around. =)
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
College Packing List ala Darcy
Hello dudes! I haven't blogged in forever, yes, that is true. This post will HARDLY be considered a blog... It's a list. Are you surprised? I like me some lists. I typed up this list a while ago, in an effort to get back to blogging (ha!), and just saved it in a Word document.
This is my list of things to pack for college. By no means is it a complete list, but I'd like to think it has plenty of random helpful tips scattered throughout. =) I'm back to college in all of two days, and I absolutely cannot wait! I'm actually going to use this list as a guide since, you know, I made it... Ahem... Moving on!
To the list!
So that's that. Right. Not blogging much. I love how my awkwardness is coming through the text. RIGHT ON SISTA. Or BROTHA. We don't discriminate here, nope.
Alright. That's enough of that.
Anyone who is going off to college for the first time... You're going to have a blast. Smile and hang in there - none of the other freshmen know what they're doing either. =)
This is my list of things to pack for college. By no means is it a complete list, but I'd like to think it has plenty of random helpful tips scattered throughout. =) I'm back to college in all of two days, and I absolutely cannot wait! I'm actually going to use this list as a guide since, you know, I made it... Ahem... Moving on!
To the list!
·
TOILETRIES:
o
I suggest you take an entire week and write down
everything that you used. You’d be surprised how many products you use! Most people can’t get away with just shampoo,
body wash, and deodorant!
o
Shower caddy
o
Shower flip flops – buy new ones at the dollar
store. You’re only going to shower in these, so they don’t have to be fancy.
o
Toothbrush travel cover – just an extra
precaution in case you drop it or anything.
I like to keep my toothbrush in my caddy, so it’s nice to have it covered.
o
Towels and robe (if desired) – if you get a
bathrobe, make sure you’re comfortable enough with the length to walk to and
from the bathroom.
o
If you’re living in an apartment or a
suite-style dorm where you have a private bathroom, you might need to provide
your own hand soap.
o
Kleenex
o
Sunscreen – You might take for granted just how
much time you’ll spend in the sun walking around campus. Be careful! (I
recommend SPF 30 or higher, with broad spectrum UVA/UVB protection. BOOM!)
·
CLEANING SUPPLIES:
o
Clorox wipes, Pledge
o
Dish soap, sponges
o
Laundry detergent, dryer sheets or fabric
softener
o
Clorox Color Catcher sheets
o
Vacuum (little Dirt Devil for $15!)
o
Paper towels
·
AROUND THE ROOM:
o
Small (ish) futon or chairs make a living space homey.
If you get a circle or butterfly chair, they are easy to stow away so you can
save space.
o
Big oscillating fan – VITAL if you are going to
be in a dorm without air conditioning! And even if you do have AC, dorms get stuffy so
it’s nice to keep the air moving.
o
Small personal fan – great to have close to your
bed so you don’t get hot at night. Added bonus: serve as white noise so you can
block out some of the typical sounds around the dorm (elevators, chatty
neighbors, etc).
o
Rug – if your room is not carpeted, it will be
very cold in the winter. It might be a good idea to leave the rug at home for
the warm months, but when winter rolls around you’ll be sick of the cold tile
on your tootsies!
o
Desk lamp and light bulbs – It doesn’t have to
go at your desk, but rather anywhere that you need a little extra light. Most of the lamps they target to college
students have bendable stands. I hope you know what I’m talking about. These
are very good! Much more convenient than stationery lamps.
o
TV dinner folding tables – so many times I
wished I had one of these in my dorm. They’re easy to stow away so they don’t
take up much space, and it’s nice to have an actual table to set your food on
instead of eating off your lap.
o
Storage – taking advantage of vertical space is
KEY in dorms. I like milk crates or towers of drawers.
·
FOOD TIME:
o
Reusable water bottle – I cannot emphasize this
enough. Living on campus, you’re probably walking around all day. You’ll get
thirsty. Don’t be a noob and buy disposable plastic water bottles. You’re
killing the earth, yo. I highly recommend the Camelbak bottles – the top is
like a straw so it’s easy to drink out of and it’s convenient to carry
around. You can find them at Target (and
probably at Walmart). If they sell them at your school’s bookstore with your
college’s name on it, don’t buy it. They’ll charge you ten more dollars for
having their name on it. Pfft.
o
Microwave
o
Mini-fridge
o
Toaster (if desired)
o
Plates and bowls
o
Silverware (at least 2-3 of each)
o
Cups/glasses
o
One big coffee mug – hot cocoa or some instant
soups live in this guy. Or coffee, if you’re gross like that.
o
Peanut butter – It will save you again and
again. Trust me. Throw some jelly in the fridge, and you’re golden.
o
Ramen – cheap. Enough said.
o
Food mostly depends on personal preferences, but
these are some basics to get you started. When it’s late and the dining halls
are all closed, you’ll want something to snack on that you can prepare/microwave
easily.
o
Ice tray – if you’re someone who always wants
ice with your drinks, then you will save so much money by making your own ice
instead of paying for a bag.
·
BED TIME:
o
Your bed is your home away from home, your
escape from (initially) scary college life.
Make it express who you are; make it a place where you want to go each
night. That being said, make it comfy and cool looking.
o
Mattress pad – this is VITAL. Dorm mattresses
aren’t always the most forgiving, and the funky looking foam pads make a world
of difference.
o
Extra-long twin sheets – I suggest a lighter
color because they tend to look better.
o
Comforter – Again, get one that you like to look
at. Whether it’s just a fun pattern or it reminds you of home, it will make it
more inviting when you go to sleep at night.
o
Pillows and pillow cases – obviously. As many as
you want to make it yours.
o
Stuffed animals – but don’t overdo it. Take one
or two (or none!) of your favorites. I took a bright blue teddy bear and two
small matching sheep. (Sounds like Darcy, right?)
o
Extra blanket – sometimes when it gets cold it’s
nice to have an extra just in case.
So that's that. Right. Not blogging much. I love how my awkwardness is coming through the text. RIGHT ON SISTA. Or BROTHA. We don't discriminate here, nope.
Alright. That's enough of that.
Anyone who is going off to college for the first time... You're going to have a blast. Smile and hang in there - none of the other freshmen know what they're doing either. =)
Friday, May 4, 2012
Update in the Overall Direction of My Life
Yay for overly grand titles!
I was looking over my blog and realized I literally hadn't posted in months. This saddens me. I read through a couple old posts and realized I really missed writing these crazy little rants. Today's blog is taking the form of a life update as opposed to advice-giving or heavy-duty topic-discussing post.
My friends on Facebook all probably saw that I finally declared my major - sociology!
Now I've heard. The social sciences are soft. You won't make any money there. What can you do with that?
Honestly, I don't quite know just yet. The plan for now is that I want to literally be a sociologist, conducting research, and possibly teach social sciences classes at the college level.
In order to do this, I have to go to grad school. If I want to teach, add a professional or doctoral degree on top of that. Yeesh. That all sounds a little overwhelming to start, but I have always loved school. I loved learning from before I ever started school all the way to now. I even told my friends (before I had some semblance of a plan) that I just wanted to be a scholar, but no one pays you to learn stuff anymore. *sigh* haha
I took a career orientation this semester that kind of helped me put some things in order. It made me look at interests, skills, and values as well as personality type, all to help me figure out what my best occupation would be. All those things considered, sociologist fit. Whee!
I kind of knew ever since I took an exploratory sociology class in high school that soc was what I wanted to do. I entered my college as an open option student to figure out if anything else would tempt me more than sociology. Nothing did. Alas, Darcy is a sociology major. =)
The thing that helps me know that I would enjoy this job is that I would feel like I was actually making a difference. There are some serious large-scale issues in society that are scary. Did you know that human trafficking goes on everywhere in the world, including the United States? Including Iowa? Including the town where I go to school, even? It's disgusting, it's wrong, and I want to stop it. Maybe I can. THAT is what I want. Believe you me, there is a post on human and sex trafficking coming soon, but that is not this post.
I didn't know that I wanted to be a social activist a year ago. It's always a good thing when I get really mad about something - that means I must care. A lot. And care I do!
I'm not sure where I would want to specialize because sociology is an extremely broad field, but I have at least three years for that.
Back to more tangible updates - I'm considering picking up another major in psychology, anthropology, or (gasp! dare I say it!?) political science. Also, I think I would like to minor in Spanish. I desperately need to study abroad, and Spanish is my in! ha HA!
As for making my future awesome, I need to start networking and get involved in my field. I really need to get an internship doing some sort of research or really anything in a social sciences field. If any of my beloved readers know anything or anyone in this area, please please PLEASE let me know. It's detrimental to my getting into grad school and ultimately getting a good job. (Heavy, much?)
By the way, I am finished with my freshman year of college! I absolutely loved it. Had a blast. I love being in such a diverse place, seeing and interacting with all different kinds of people (hello, sociology major). I also love the coursework - it's so different from high school. I feel like I spend more time actually learning than doing worksheets like it was in high school. Ya dig? It's more challenging, which I enjoy. Yay college!
Alright. I'm rambling now. There's my suuuuper long update. Comment, yo! Make my day. =)
Looooooooorrveee,
♥Darcy
I was looking over my blog and realized I literally hadn't posted in months. This saddens me. I read through a couple old posts and realized I really missed writing these crazy little rants. Today's blog is taking the form of a life update as opposed to advice-giving or heavy-duty topic-discussing post.
My friends on Facebook all probably saw that I finally declared my major - sociology!
Now I've heard. The social sciences are soft. You won't make any money there. What can you do with that?
Honestly, I don't quite know just yet. The plan for now is that I want to literally be a sociologist, conducting research, and possibly teach social sciences classes at the college level.
In order to do this, I have to go to grad school. If I want to teach, add a professional or doctoral degree on top of that. Yeesh. That all sounds a little overwhelming to start, but I have always loved school. I loved learning from before I ever started school all the way to now. I even told my friends (before I had some semblance of a plan) that I just wanted to be a scholar, but no one pays you to learn stuff anymore. *sigh* haha
I took a career orientation this semester that kind of helped me put some things in order. It made me look at interests, skills, and values as well as personality type, all to help me figure out what my best occupation would be. All those things considered, sociologist fit. Whee!
I kind of knew ever since I took an exploratory sociology class in high school that soc was what I wanted to do. I entered my college as an open option student to figure out if anything else would tempt me more than sociology. Nothing did. Alas, Darcy is a sociology major. =)
The thing that helps me know that I would enjoy this job is that I would feel like I was actually making a difference. There are some serious large-scale issues in society that are scary. Did you know that human trafficking goes on everywhere in the world, including the United States? Including Iowa? Including the town where I go to school, even? It's disgusting, it's wrong, and I want to stop it. Maybe I can. THAT is what I want. Believe you me, there is a post on human and sex trafficking coming soon, but that is not this post.
I didn't know that I wanted to be a social activist a year ago. It's always a good thing when I get really mad about something - that means I must care. A lot. And care I do!
I'm not sure where I would want to specialize because sociology is an extremely broad field, but I have at least three years for that.
Back to more tangible updates - I'm considering picking up another major in psychology, anthropology, or (gasp! dare I say it!?) political science. Also, I think I would like to minor in Spanish. I desperately need to study abroad, and Spanish is my in! ha HA!
As for making my future awesome, I need to start networking and get involved in my field. I really need to get an internship doing some sort of research or really anything in a social sciences field. If any of my beloved readers know anything or anyone in this area, please please PLEASE let me know. It's detrimental to my getting into grad school and ultimately getting a good job. (Heavy, much?)
By the way, I am finished with my freshman year of college! I absolutely loved it. Had a blast. I love being in such a diverse place, seeing and interacting with all different kinds of people (hello, sociology major). I also love the coursework - it's so different from high school. I feel like I spend more time actually learning than doing worksheets like it was in high school. Ya dig? It's more challenging, which I enjoy. Yay college!
Alright. I'm rambling now. There's my suuuuper long update. Comment, yo! Make my day. =)
Looooooooorrveee,
♥Darcy
Sunday, January 29, 2012
First blog in a while? Let's make this uncomfortable.
I don't have much time to blog anymore.
Correction: I don't make time to blog anymore.
However, I am in Soc 219, which is the Sociology of Intimate Relationships and Sexuality. It's a fascinating course, if you wanted to know. But it brings to mind some issues that are especially pertinent to people my age. I am not going to apologize for how sudden or harsh this blog will come across because quite frankly this PISSES ME OFF.
Did you know that one in four women in college will be victims of attempted or actual sexual assault by the time they graduate? Think about that in terms of women you know how have graduated from college, and then the statistic seems even scarier.
Before you begin to tell me that these cases are the women's fault, consider this. What if your sister or close friend got a little out of control one night at a party? Maybe her shirt was a little too low cut, her skirt riding a little too high. At a party she mistakenly trusts the wrong person, and she becomes a victim. Would you blame her? Would you tell her it was her fault, that she should have been more careful? Or would you have a bigger problem with the rapist? If you are more upset with the victim, that is very revealing of a major problem in our society. (I apologize for the grandiose statement, but it's true.) For some reason, we seem to believe that if a woman is dressed in a risque fashion or has had too much to drink, she is immediately responsible for being assaulted instead of the actual assaulter.
I'm going to go ahead and say this right now. No person, male or female, straight or LGBT, ever deserves to be violated. The circumstances don't matter. They were too drunk to say no. Perhaps they were dressed slutty so they were "asking for it". Maybe they liked someone, but in the heat of the moment things happened too fast.
That being said, if anyone ever confides in you that he or she was sexually assaulted, your first questions shouldn't be "What did you do?" or "How could you let this happen?" Instead, be supportive. Your friend needs your help now more than ever. Encourage the victim to call 911 and report the rape. This is important because most people do not sexually assault. However, serial rapists exist, and if they go unpunished, they could potentially keep on abusing other people.
Back to helping your friend. Talk to them. Don't judge them. The assault was not their fault. It's hard and it's scary, but it is so important to be there for your friend. If you or any of your friends have ever been a victim of sexual assault, I am so, so sorry.
But what can we do about it? I'm only one person. On my own, my opinion can only go so far. This problem goes deep... It is perpetuated in jokes like "If she didn't say no, it's okay" and other sayings like that. If you ever see or hear of immoral practices going on, speak up. Voice your opinion. This won't change unless we make it happen.
Phew. First blog in a long time, and I choose an issue like this? Goodness. Anyway. If any of you want to talk about any of this, ask me questions or argue with me, by all means. It's so important that we talk about this issue and get it out in the open. Thanks for reading, guys. ♥
**I apologize to all of my grammar-crazy family and friends about using 'them' as a singular pronoun over and over, but I didn't want to have to distinguish between men and women. baha
Correction: I don't make time to blog anymore.
However, I am in Soc 219, which is the Sociology of Intimate Relationships and Sexuality. It's a fascinating course, if you wanted to know. But it brings to mind some issues that are especially pertinent to people my age. I am not going to apologize for how sudden or harsh this blog will come across because quite frankly this PISSES ME OFF.
Did you know that one in four women in college will be victims of attempted or actual sexual assault by the time they graduate? Think about that in terms of women you know how have graduated from college, and then the statistic seems even scarier.
Before you begin to tell me that these cases are the women's fault, consider this. What if your sister or close friend got a little out of control one night at a party? Maybe her shirt was a little too low cut, her skirt riding a little too high. At a party she mistakenly trusts the wrong person, and she becomes a victim. Would you blame her? Would you tell her it was her fault, that she should have been more careful? Or would you have a bigger problem with the rapist? If you are more upset with the victim, that is very revealing of a major problem in our society. (I apologize for the grandiose statement, but it's true.) For some reason, we seem to believe that if a woman is dressed in a risque fashion or has had too much to drink, she is immediately responsible for being assaulted instead of the actual assaulter.
I'm going to go ahead and say this right now. No person, male or female, straight or LGBT, ever deserves to be violated. The circumstances don't matter. They were too drunk to say no. Perhaps they were dressed slutty so they were "asking for it". Maybe they liked someone, but in the heat of the moment things happened too fast.
That being said, if anyone ever confides in you that he or she was sexually assaulted, your first questions shouldn't be "What did you do?" or "How could you let this happen?" Instead, be supportive. Your friend needs your help now more than ever. Encourage the victim to call 911 and report the rape. This is important because most people do not sexually assault. However, serial rapists exist, and if they go unpunished, they could potentially keep on abusing other people.
Back to helping your friend. Talk to them. Don't judge them. The assault was not their fault. It's hard and it's scary, but it is so important to be there for your friend. If you or any of your friends have ever been a victim of sexual assault, I am so, so sorry.
But what can we do about it? I'm only one person. On my own, my opinion can only go so far. This problem goes deep... It is perpetuated in jokes like "If she didn't say no, it's okay" and other sayings like that. If you ever see or hear of immoral practices going on, speak up. Voice your opinion. This won't change unless we make it happen.
Phew. First blog in a long time, and I choose an issue like this? Goodness. Anyway. If any of you want to talk about any of this, ask me questions or argue with me, by all means. It's so important that we talk about this issue and get it out in the open. Thanks for reading, guys. ♥
**I apologize to all of my grammar-crazy family and friends about using 'them' as a singular pronoun over and over, but I didn't want to have to distinguish between men and women. baha
Thursday, October 6, 2011
College Dorm ILLUSTRATED
Hey guys. Haven't blogged in a while. =) I was actually going to create this blog a long time ago... but I never got around to it. Of course, there are many other more productive things I should be doing right now. So, I'll write a blog. =P (That's the college mentality, for less than driven students.)
Many of you will probably never actually see my dorm room. Let's be honest, it's a dorm. Kinda small, kinda cramped, but kinda my home. =) However, I DO want to share with you some small organization tips and whatnot. (HAHAHA organization tips from Darcy) I know that some of the people who read my blog will be going off to college next year... so here it goes.
That's my desk! Pretty standard. I'll have a few more pictures that are closer up ...
Alright, muy importante shtuff right here. Every college student needs a desk lamp. It gets dark around here, yo! You can see some of my textbooks, dictionaries, etc. ALSO, an important aspect for girls or all jewelry wearing people: My mesh-y looking butterfly holds all of my earrings conveniently, the elephant's trunk holds all of my rings, and the hemp-looking bag next to that holds all my necklaces. I strongly recommend that anyone who likes to wear jewelry invest in things like these. I don't really recommend the bag... I'm broke and I don't have the money to look for something fancy shmancy for necklaces. Moving right along. =)
Highly recommended: plastic organizer or small plastic baskets to compartmentalize the random goodies that get shoved into the desk drawers. You can see I have some necessities here: address book, glue, batteries, thumb tacks, stapler (and staples!), calculator, sticky notes, white out, pocket knife, tape, staple remover, flashdrive, and clips. Not pictured here: SCISSORS. Do not forget them. No joke. baha
Yay for kitchenware! Obviously my dishes are limited... Whatcha gonna do? I have the basics. Glasses. Bowls. Silverware (at least two of each). Mug (LOVE THIS). Plastic measuring cup. I love this measuring cup for making sure I have the right amount of water for Ramen noodles and things... very practical. Also, I recommend buying a couple plates. Really you only need about two of each of these. I just don't have plates. *sigh* My life.
FOOD. Very important. Ramen noodles are a must, along with PopTarts and granola bars. The rest are just novelty items but I recommend hot cocoa in individual packets. Swiss Miss is my fave. =) If you're curious, I have ramen noodles, poptarts, hot cocoa, Cooooooooooookie Crisp, TownHouse crackers, Target's generic brand granola bars (not bad, btw), Oreos, and a spicy habanero jelly. Why not?
SHOWER CADDIES ARE IMPORTANT. baha Go to WalMart or Target or something like that and get a caddy like this with different compartments to hold your toiletries - it makes it way easier in the shower. I'm pretty sure this was less than five dollars and totally worth it. Also, buy a new pair of cheap flip flops for the shower. Who knows what has been on that floor, mmkay? Along with that I have pretty standard stuff: shampoo and conditioner, body wash, a loooooofah, facewash, shave gel, a razor, my toothbrush, and toothpaste. The comb is just hanging out in there. I don't discriminate. =)
I love this plastic tower of drawers. It's important to organize vertically in the dorms whenever possible - saves space. My top drawer has hair products and my case of nail polish. Middle drawer has various skin products and randomness. Bottom drawer has shampoo and conditioner along with styling tools: straightener, curling iron, blow dryer... My makeup case rests on this tower. It's cute, relatively small, and holds everything I need in an organized fashion. Woohoo! My bookbag is also pictured here... Get a bookbag that you really like - comfortable AND fashionable - because you are going to be spending a lot of time with this bad boy. Also, when you look like crap, you still have a little something to show for yourself if you have a cute backpack. =)
Aha! GO GREEN. This is my plastic bag of plastic bags, hung on the ladder for my loft. You use plastic bags for everything, and they make easy and cheap trash bags.
Invest in hooks of any kind! Remember the vertical organization idea? Applies here. I use these two little hooks to hang up my robe, my purse, my keys... whatever. VERY handy.
So, all pictures up to this point were taken when my room was still clean and relatively un-Darcified. Hence the lighting change and whatnot. THIS is my little cleaning station. More vertical organization, you'll notice. These are two milk crates stacked on top of one another to create makeshift shelves. Top shelf: Pledge, antibacterial wipes (I'm always wiping down doorknobs and lightswitches and such), sponge, dish soap, paper towels, Kleenex, dish cloths. Bottom shelf (harder to see): Tide laundry detergent, Clorox stain remover and Febreze in the back, Oxi-Clean, dryer sheets, Shout Color Catcher sheets (do loads of different colors all in one without fear!), and a mini laundry bag (used for protecting delicates, especially dainty undergarments, in the harsh machines at college).
SIDE NOTE: These water bottles are FANTASTIC. Some of you high society folks probably found these a long time ago, and I had seen them for a while... but I never realized how glorious they were until I had my own. The top flips up and acts as a straw, which is aaaawesome... I've never drank more water in my life. I think originally it cost me somewhere between $12-$15... Definitely worth it. It's much cheaper in the long run to buy this water bottle and fill up at drinking fountains than to be perpetually buying and throwing away disposable water bottles - much more green too!
So... I suppose that lets you peek into my life here at college just a bit. =) Does anyone read my blog to check in on me or do they just like reading it because I'm a bit quirky? baha. If anyone appreciates the illustrated 'diary' of my life, I might post more blogs like these... They're easier for me to crank out when I'm busy... Let me know.
ALSO, tell me. If you're still in high school and planning on going to college, what are you most worried or curious about? And if you are/have been in college, I need to hear some awesome stories.
I missed this. BYYYYYYYYYYYYE. <3
Many of you will probably never actually see my dorm room. Let's be honest, it's a dorm. Kinda small, kinda cramped, but kinda my home. =) However, I DO want to share with you some small organization tips and whatnot. (HAHAHA organization tips from Darcy) I know that some of the people who read my blog will be going off to college next year... so here it goes.
That's my desk! Pretty standard. I'll have a few more pictures that are closer up ...
Alright, muy importante shtuff right here. Every college student needs a desk lamp. It gets dark around here, yo! You can see some of my textbooks, dictionaries, etc. ALSO, an important aspect for girls or all jewelry wearing people: My mesh-y looking butterfly holds all of my earrings conveniently, the elephant's trunk holds all of my rings, and the hemp-looking bag next to that holds all my necklaces. I strongly recommend that anyone who likes to wear jewelry invest in things like these. I don't really recommend the bag... I'm broke and I don't have the money to look for something fancy shmancy for necklaces. Moving right along. =)
Highly recommended: plastic organizer or small plastic baskets to compartmentalize the random goodies that get shoved into the desk drawers. You can see I have some necessities here: address book, glue, batteries, thumb tacks, stapler (and staples!), calculator, sticky notes, white out, pocket knife, tape, staple remover, flashdrive, and clips. Not pictured here: SCISSORS. Do not forget them. No joke. baha
Yay for kitchenware! Obviously my dishes are limited... Whatcha gonna do? I have the basics. Glasses. Bowls. Silverware (at least two of each). Mug (LOVE THIS). Plastic measuring cup. I love this measuring cup for making sure I have the right amount of water for Ramen noodles and things... very practical. Also, I recommend buying a couple plates. Really you only need about two of each of these. I just don't have plates. *sigh* My life.
FOOD. Very important. Ramen noodles are a must, along with PopTarts and granola bars. The rest are just novelty items but I recommend hot cocoa in individual packets. Swiss Miss is my fave. =) If you're curious, I have ramen noodles, poptarts, hot cocoa, Cooooooooooookie Crisp, TownHouse crackers, Target's generic brand granola bars (not bad, btw), Oreos, and a spicy habanero jelly. Why not?
SHOWER CADDIES ARE IMPORTANT. baha Go to WalMart or Target or something like that and get a caddy like this with different compartments to hold your toiletries - it makes it way easier in the shower. I'm pretty sure this was less than five dollars and totally worth it. Also, buy a new pair of cheap flip flops for the shower. Who knows what has been on that floor, mmkay? Along with that I have pretty standard stuff: shampoo and conditioner, body wash, a loooooofah, facewash, shave gel, a razor, my toothbrush, and toothpaste. The comb is just hanging out in there. I don't discriminate. =)
I love this plastic tower of drawers. It's important to organize vertically in the dorms whenever possible - saves space. My top drawer has hair products and my case of nail polish. Middle drawer has various skin products and randomness. Bottom drawer has shampoo and conditioner along with styling tools: straightener, curling iron, blow dryer... My makeup case rests on this tower. It's cute, relatively small, and holds everything I need in an organized fashion. Woohoo! My bookbag is also pictured here... Get a bookbag that you really like - comfortable AND fashionable - because you are going to be spending a lot of time with this bad boy. Also, when you look like crap, you still have a little something to show for yourself if you have a cute backpack. =)
Aha! GO GREEN. This is my plastic bag of plastic bags, hung on the ladder for my loft. You use plastic bags for everything, and they make easy and cheap trash bags.
Invest in hooks of any kind! Remember the vertical organization idea? Applies here. I use these two little hooks to hang up my robe, my purse, my keys... whatever. VERY handy.
So, all pictures up to this point were taken when my room was still clean and relatively un-Darcified. Hence the lighting change and whatnot. THIS is my little cleaning station. More vertical organization, you'll notice. These are two milk crates stacked on top of one another to create makeshift shelves. Top shelf: Pledge, antibacterial wipes (I'm always wiping down doorknobs and lightswitches and such), sponge, dish soap, paper towels, Kleenex, dish cloths. Bottom shelf (harder to see): Tide laundry detergent, Clorox stain remover and Febreze in the back, Oxi-Clean, dryer sheets, Shout Color Catcher sheets (do loads of different colors all in one without fear!), and a mini laundry bag (used for protecting delicates, especially dainty undergarments, in the harsh machines at college).
SIDE NOTE: These water bottles are FANTASTIC. Some of you high society folks probably found these a long time ago, and I had seen them for a while... but I never realized how glorious they were until I had my own. The top flips up and acts as a straw, which is aaaawesome... I've never drank more water in my life. I think originally it cost me somewhere between $12-$15... Definitely worth it. It's much cheaper in the long run to buy this water bottle and fill up at drinking fountains than to be perpetually buying and throwing away disposable water bottles - much more green too!
So... I suppose that lets you peek into my life here at college just a bit. =) Does anyone read my blog to check in on me or do they just like reading it because I'm a bit quirky? baha. If anyone appreciates the illustrated 'diary' of my life, I might post more blogs like these... They're easier for me to crank out when I'm busy... Let me know.
ALSO, tell me. If you're still in high school and planning on going to college, what are you most worried or curious about? And if you are/have been in college, I need to hear some awesome stories.
I missed this. BYYYYYYYYYYYYE. <3
Monday, August 22, 2011
EEK!
College. I should have skipped all other areas of my life just to get to this place.
Let me start off saying that I've always been kind of a weirdie. Yes, a weirdie. I played weird games when I was a child, I got picked on in middle school, and I definitely received many a weird look in high school. But in college, especially at a large university, you can just move on from the people who look at you funny for talking about Pokemon in everyday life. You just skip right over them, on to the next. Plus everyone is so friendly! We're all in the same boat trying to meet new people. College gives you something in common, always something to talk about. Where you live, where you're from, major, blah blah blah....
Most kids go to college and freak out about all their new found freedom. Pfft. I didn't need freedom - I had that already. What I needed was VARIETY. And oh BOY did I get it! =D The diversity on campus is insane. There are sooooo many different people. There are 5,000 students in my class. 5,000! That's larger than my entire hometown! Plus there are so many different opportunities to get involved in interesting activities. Por ejemplo, the other night I went salsa dancing. YEAH, I SAID SALSA DANCING. =D I loved it so much. The instructor even asked me to be his partner, and I danced with him up on the stage! It was so much fun. I looked into it, and every Friday night I'm going to go swing dancing on campus for FREE. So much better than the....
"What do you wanna do tonight?"
"I dunno... what about you?"
"We could go out to eat, or see a movie..."
"We've eaten at all 5 restaurants in town already this week, and Mr. Popper's Penguins is playing. Gag."
"Hmmm. Let's get drunk instead."
THAT CONVERSATION DOESN'T HAPPEN FOR ME! =P
I'm just overjoyed, as you can tell. And I haven't even brought up the classes yet! I'll tell ya about my schedule.
Intro to Sociology
Intro to World Languages
Spanish 303 (Conversational Spanish)
"Newspaper Physics" - a learning community that parallels my English 250 class
Lyrica Womens Chorus
If you know me, you know that I adooooore almost all of these things. YAY YAY YAY.
I planned on doing a blog about my room and how I organized everything, but I do not yet have a laptop of my own, so I'm holding off on that for now. It will include pictures. =)
If any of you are already off to college, tell me about your experiences! Or if you graduated a long time ago, let me hear it! This is probably the best way I'll be able to update people back home. I love you all, but I wouldn't call myself homesick. Call me or something if you ever want to chat.
Peace out, ladies! <3
Monday, August 8, 2011
More moooooovies...
I love movies. You get it. It's going to hurt when I go to college and can't afford to go to them right when they come out all the time. It will physically cause me pain. Not to mention, it will give me significantly less to talk about in an awkward small-talkY kind of situation. That's the WORST. Anyway.
I've seen some rather AWESOME movies lately. Boom baby. They were all very good, so I couldn't really rate them... but the last I mention here is my favorite. Let's go!
COWBOYS AND ALIENS (PG-13)
I know, I was skeptical too. I saw this when I was in Omaha visiting family. My cousin's boyfriend invited us to go to the movie, and I was all for it. (Viewing bad movies makes for good bonding experiences, you know.) I kept expecting the combination of western + sci fi to be really awful, but it wasn't actually bad at all. Jake (Craig) wakes up in the middle of no where and has no idea who he is. As he tries to figure out who he is, he has to work with people he has apparently swindled in the past and fight off aliens who are abducting the village. He has a strange metal bracelet with strange powers, which Wilde helps him figure out how to use to their best advantage. This movie has a lot of shooting and violence, so if that's something you cannot handle, I would suggest not seeing this movie... but I myself really liked it. =)
Cast:
Daniel Craig (Casino Royale, Quantum of Solace)
Harrison Ford (Indiana Jones)
Olivia Wilde (Tron, House)
IMDB rating: 6.8/10
RISE OF THE PLANET OF THE APES (PG-13)
Now, don't hate me. I've never actually seen the original Planet of the Apes. I have, however, seen the version from the early 2000s with Mark Wahlberg and Helena Bonham Carter. So I don't know if I have a good enough background in the ape chronicles to give a good review, but I'm going to try. =) Franco, a talented scientist, is working on a cure for Alzheimer's disease. He makes a lot of progress and seems so close to the cure, but things go terribly wrong, so he takes in an orphaned ape and raises him. Caesar, Franco's ape, is extremely intelligent because of the drug Franco had been working on. He struggles finding a place to fit in, which causes problems... This movie was rather shocking and sad a lot of the time. I have been told, however, that all the apes were CGI, so no animals were harmed in the making of this movie. Smiley face!
Cast:
James Franco (Spider-Man, 127 Hours)
Freida Pinto (Slumdog Millionaire)
John Lithgow (3rd Rock from the Sun)
Tom Felton (Harry Potter)
IMDB Rating: 8.0/10
CRAZY, STUPID, LOVE (PG-13)
I was sooo excited to see this movie just because of the cast, and it didn't disappoint me. Carell and Moore's marriage is falling apart at the seams, and things just get worse from there. Carell starts looking for advice in the wrong places, and everyone falls in and out of love all over the place. Ahem, and Ryan Gosling is beautiful. Reason enough to watch this movie. =)
Steve Carell (the Office, Despicable Me)
Julianne Moore (Magnolia, the Kids Are All Right)
Ryan Gosling (the Notebook)
Emma Stone (Easy A, Zombieland)
Kevin Bacon (Footloose, X-Men: First Class)
Marisa Tomei (What Women Want, the Lincoln Lawyer)
IMDB Rating: 8.0/10
You simply HAVE to tell me what you think of these movies. And probably what you think of my reviews. =)
Byyyyye. <3
Friday, August 5, 2011
So... getting ready for college is HARD.
Guys, I'm stressing.
There is SO much for just one person to do! Applying for financial aid, buying all the things necessary to living independently, and mentally preparing for taking college level courses. YIKES.
Yikes. We all know college is expensive, but you never truly understand just how much it will cost until you receive your financial award letter. Can someone say student loans? And then on top of that, there's the stress of buying the books... and HOPEFULLY they show up on time so you don't look like a loser when the first day rolls around!
Books are NOT the only things you have to buy. I have to invest in little units for storage - shoe rack and plastic drawer things and milk crates, school supplies, a first aid kit, a power strip, and any and ALL toiletries I will need when separated from my parents who usually just automatically buy them for me. The list doesn't stop there, but that's all I can think of for now. The list is literally too long for all the items to stick in your brain at any given time.
OHMYGOSH, freaking out. I'm taking a 300 level conversational Spanish class. I haven't practiced my Spanish in forever. It was pointed out to me that in a 300 class, the whoooooole class will probably be taught solely in Spanish. EEK! I had a hard time listening to my dear high school Spanish teacher sometimes! So I keep promising myself that I'll go over my HS Spanish vocab lists... I haven't yet. Spanish isn't the only class that worries me though. I'm freaked out that I'll be late to class, that I won't know where I'm going and I'll get lost, and that I'll flunk all my other classes. Do you understand my stress??? And I didn't even TALK about getting along with my roommate! haha (FYI, my roommate seems wonderful. I'm just noivous in general!!)
Now that I have completely and totally freaked out about my main college concerns... Maybe I should talk about how to override these concerns and just push through them, eh?
As far as money goes, I'm not an expert. At all. I plan on NOT getting a job my first semester so that I can have a little time to adjust to my new life. I have some money saved from graduation gifts, but that is all. So after that first semester is over, I'm going to start looking for a job and seeing what I can do to ease my debt. Another thing to consider, just for funsies... Poke around your college's town, and see what good deals you can find... For example, Ames has a Village Inn (as do many other towns... haha). Every Wednesday at Village Inn, if you make a purchase, you get a slice of pie for free. FOR FREE! You could go buy a drink and get a piece of pie that costs more than the drink itself. I really think that finding small, fun, free/discounted things to do during college will keep us college kids from going insane all the while being money conscious. Also, you can join any club that you're interested in. Some clubs will charge a fee when you join for various supplies you may need, but these kinds of things offer lots of FUN at little cost. Whoo!
Now... I was referring to the crazy insane list. Yes, it is ridiculously long, but it is still manageable. Why, you might ask? Because of the INTERNET.
Awesome List #1
Awesome List #2
Both of these links could save your life. They are very similar, although I do prefer the top one. (Probably just because it is prettier.) I suggest that one day, you carry a notepad around with you and any time you use an item, write it down. The list will surprise you because you don't realize just how much STUFF you need until you are left without it. Also, I suggest shopping around in shifts so that you can compare prices and find the things you truly want without being rushed. =)
As for the freak out over taking college level courses... Yeah, it's scary no matter what. All you can do is breathe, go to class, pay attention, and do your best. As for me, I WILL start looking at my Spanish vocab. I also told my mother (who had some Spanish instruction a while back) to feel free to speak to me in Spanish whenever she pleases. I am also going to ask my sister, a Spanish major, hablar conmigo en espanol por telefono. =) (to speak with me in Spanish on the phone) Holla at me, Theresa! haha
Honestly, if there is anything else you are worrying about, talk to people who have been to college before. Yes, people. Plural. No two people have the same college experience, so it's good to get a wider background of information. And if the veterans can't answer your question, go to your school's website and poke around, or find a number to call. The people who work at colleges are always friendly and willing to point you in the right direction. =)
I really hope this helped someone. It was rather therapeutic for me to write, helped to calm me down. =P
Byyyyyyyyyyyyyye. <3
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Two words for you: JUICY LIPS
bahaha that's a quote. Not telling you who from... =P
HEY! Lip gloss is important. Not really. But I like it. And I'm young and silly so I feel like I can blog about superficial things all I want. I'mma share some of my faaaaaaaavorite lip products. Boom baby. Let's get ready.
First! The lip balm. This is not a joke, my friends. Best lip balm you've ever had. (and maybe even tasted... just kidding... never mind)
HEY! Lip gloss is important. Not really. But I like it. And I'm young and silly so I feel like I can blog about superficial things all I want. I'mma share some of my faaaaaaaavorite lip products. Boom baby. Let's get ready.
First! The lip balm. This is not a joke, my friends. Best lip balm you've ever had. (and maybe even tasted... just kidding... never mind)
Smooth, nonsticky, awesome, best-you-ever-had kind of balm. Oh yeah, that's what I'm talking about. The EOS lip balms found eeeverywhere. I always see them in WalMart by the checkout, but I've also seen them in Walgreens and various other stores. This flavor is my favorite - Lemon Drop. The lemon one is not my favorite just because it smells delicious (and oh my, is it delicious), but also because it has the smoothest, best-feeling texture. The other flavors include (but are not limited to!): honeysuckle, sweet mint, and summer fruit (smells like Peachie-Os!). Also, in WalMart I saw a package of two flavors I've never seen before... strawberry and passionfruit, I think? Anyway! The other flavors are good too (I have three, but have tried nearly all of them!), but I recommend lemon drop the most. It also has SPF 15, which is great to protect your lips. Holla at me!
My first gloss recommendation: Maybelline Shine Sensational Lipgloss
Aren't they pretty?? I only own one so far - Tempting Toffee, which is second from the left in this picture. John bought it for me as a present because he knew how excited I was to have a toffee-flavored gloss. Needs no explanation. haha but I was pleasantly surprised with the look and texture of the gloss. Tempting Toffee isn't sparkly, but a smooth natural-looking red color. LOVE. But the beauty of this line? Maybelline does not just have four lip glosses in this line - oh no - they have EIGHTEEN. I will list them all...
Minty Sheer, Cherry Bloom, Freshly Sliced, Glamorous Guava, Mad About Melon, Crazy for Caramel, Cocoa Fever, Berry Dazzle, Cranberry Crave, Crushed Candy, Peach Sorbet, Cherry Kiss, Watermelon Punch, Berry Bella, Sweet Indulgence, Sparkling Grape, Treat Me Sweet, and (previously mentioned) Tempting Toffee
Seriously, doesn't that long list of delicious sounding names make you want to go eat something bad for you??? So obviously, tons of flavors. It covers fruity to sweet and plenty between there. The packaging is adorable - I know this should not be important, but it makes me want to buy them more. haha The finishes might vary with the flavors - I think some are glassy, some are sparkly. The fact is the glosses give a pretty shine, they're kinda sheer so they don't take over yo FACE, and they're not sticky. LOVE. I want to buy them all. I'm taking donations to this cause.
**SIDE NOTE: Maybelline does not always seal their lip products... this is good so that you can see the actual color of the products, but be careful when you are purchasing to make sure you don't buy a gloss that has been yuckified.**
My last lip gloss for now is Neutrogena's MoistureShine Lip Soother in Glaze 60. That's the technical name... I affectionately call it my "Go-To Gloss!" That's not a joke.
Also on the packaging it says "Cooling Hydragel"... No joke, fellas. This is a non-minty menthol nonsense lip gloss that gives your lips a cooling sensation. PLUS it has SPF 20 - not usually found in most glosses. My go-to gloss is smooth and sheer, and it gives you a pretty shine that isn't too over the top. This particular shade makes your lips look ... fruity? I'm not sure how to describe it. Oh! I should mention the way it smells and such. It doesn't really have a taste, but the smell is particularly difficult to describe. I'm just gonna say it smells fruity because honestly I cannot pick out specific scents within it... but I will tell you, it smells delicious. Mmm. =)
So that's all folks! I hope you enjoyed this little blog with my favorite lip glosses at the moment... Many of you will know I am particularly obsessed with lip products, so this was FUN. Just so you understand my personal taste with lip gloss - I like shiny but NOT shimmery glosses that feel good when I press my lips together (important, obviously). I always go for more sheer lip glosses because I am addicted to lipstick as it is... if I need extra color, I just layer a gloss over a lipstick. BAM.
Okay, enough of my shallow lameness. PLEASE tell me your favorite glosses and why. In a comment, on Facebook, in person... I just need to know. baha
Byyyyyyyyyye! <3
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Too bad I can't write songs.
How I wish I were a lyricist. That was my original working title. Then I realized, wow, that doesn't sound exciting at all.
But I was thinking... You know when you listen to a song and the lyrics just get to you? How certain people just know how to string words together and make them sound so powerful in rhythm with music backing them? I can't do that. I can't write poetry either. (similar, I understand. maybe the same.. whoops)
I really wish I could though. I'd like to think that I'm decent with words - I am a blogger, after all. But I have never been able to write (or even think of) anything profound to say in a couple lines. I took American Literature 1 (whoo!) and I loved it and hated it at the same time. Looking back now, I'm thinking how awful some of those stories were... but also how much talent some of those poets had! It's incredible. Emily Dickinson, for example. Yikes. Usually I don't like her stuff because it's kinda depressing and froth with meaning... good and bad, you know.
Funny story. I went to go look for a poem by Emily Dickinson that I could put in here... I didn't find any I liked. Ha! Now no one hate on me. I know there are a couple by her that I liked but.... Okay, I'm straying from the point here.
How about I look at a song that I know very well? Rolling in the Deep by Adele, I'm sure you've heard it. I sang this song for our annual pops concert so I had to memorize it... and I realized that some of the lines were genius, cutting. Background information, Adele was seriously mad at an ex-boyfriend or something like that when she wrote this. My favorite line of the whooooole song:
"Think of me in the depths of your despair /
Make a home down there as mine sure won't be shared"
Awesome, no? Make a home in your own sadness because you can never live with me. Something like that. AWESOME. The wording and the way of verbally giving the finger is something I never could have come up with. And this is why I'm jealous of people who write songs.
And by the way, I'm not just talking about people who are capable of expressing anger through poetry. I've got a handle on letting people know I'm mad without rhyming, trust me. But inspiring songs, happy songs, stupid songs... I wish I could write any of them.
I suppose I'm happy with what I've got... I'm very good at taking songs I already know and changing the words to insult who ever happens to be with me. =) That's a skill I got from my mother. Well, we've all got our strengths and weaknesses, eh? hahahahah
Sorry guys. Haven't blogged in a while. Out of my mind. Thanks for sticking around. =)
BYYYYYE! <3
But I was thinking... You know when you listen to a song and the lyrics just get to you? How certain people just know how to string words together and make them sound so powerful in rhythm with music backing them? I can't do that. I can't write poetry either. (similar, I understand. maybe the same.. whoops)
I really wish I could though. I'd like to think that I'm decent with words - I am a blogger, after all. But I have never been able to write (or even think of) anything profound to say in a couple lines. I took American Literature 1 (whoo!) and I loved it and hated it at the same time. Looking back now, I'm thinking how awful some of those stories were... but also how much talent some of those poets had! It's incredible. Emily Dickinson, for example. Yikes. Usually I don't like her stuff because it's kinda depressing and froth with meaning... good and bad, you know.
Funny story. I went to go look for a poem by Emily Dickinson that I could put in here... I didn't find any I liked. Ha! Now no one hate on me. I know there are a couple by her that I liked but.... Okay, I'm straying from the point here.
How about I look at a song that I know very well? Rolling in the Deep by Adele, I'm sure you've heard it. I sang this song for our annual pops concert so I had to memorize it... and I realized that some of the lines were genius, cutting. Background information, Adele was seriously mad at an ex-boyfriend or something like that when she wrote this. My favorite line of the whooooole song:
"Think of me in the depths of your despair /
Make a home down there as mine sure won't be shared"
Awesome, no? Make a home in your own sadness because you can never live with me. Something like that. AWESOME. The wording and the way of verbally giving the finger is something I never could have come up with. And this is why I'm jealous of people who write songs.
And by the way, I'm not just talking about people who are capable of expressing anger through poetry. I've got a handle on letting people know I'm mad without rhyming, trust me. But inspiring songs, happy songs, stupid songs... I wish I could write any of them.
I suppose I'm happy with what I've got... I'm very good at taking songs I already know and changing the words to insult who ever happens to be with me. =) That's a skill I got from my mother. Well, we've all got our strengths and weaknesses, eh? hahahahah
Sorry guys. Haven't blogged in a while. Out of my mind. Thanks for sticking around. =)
BYYYYYE! <3
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
The Glass Castle: Book Review
Oooh I've never done one of THESE before!
I just recently finished a book called The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls. It was fantastic, and I'll tell you why.
This book is actually a memoir, so it is entirely nonfiction. Walls writes about her own life growing up with... interesting parents. Her father is a highly intelligent man, but also an extremely paranoid drunk who can't keep a steady job. Her mother is an artist who would much rather be painting than raising a family, and she kind of resents her children for this reason. Walls grows up moving from place to place. Her father moves from job to job, doing the 'skedaddle' as soon as the job falls through. Every place they live is usually run down and not fit for people to live in. As she gets older, this lifestyle becomes less and less of an adventure, as her mother describes it.
My quick little summary of this book is not exactly illustrating just how shocking the whole thing was! It really made me appreciate what I have been given, the lifestyle my parents have made available to me. There was some serious neglect going on in that book... but it was never overly depressing. Some parts of the book were sad, yes. But it showed how Walls made her way out of the homeless, somewhat nomadic lifestyle and into a settled, successful career as an author.
I suggest you ALL read this book. It's an easy read, and the pages almost turn themselves. =)
That's what the book looks like, in case you actually want to take my suggestion. =) Let me know if you have already read this book, if you plan on reading it... or if you think it looks like it sucks! I wanna hear it all. Also, I need some book recommendations... Without sunshine or books, my summer is incredibly lame.
Looooove. =) BYE!
I just recently finished a book called The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls. It was fantastic, and I'll tell you why.
This book is actually a memoir, so it is entirely nonfiction. Walls writes about her own life growing up with... interesting parents. Her father is a highly intelligent man, but also an extremely paranoid drunk who can't keep a steady job. Her mother is an artist who would much rather be painting than raising a family, and she kind of resents her children for this reason. Walls grows up moving from place to place. Her father moves from job to job, doing the 'skedaddle' as soon as the job falls through. Every place they live is usually run down and not fit for people to live in. As she gets older, this lifestyle becomes less and less of an adventure, as her mother describes it.
My quick little summary of this book is not exactly illustrating just how shocking the whole thing was! It really made me appreciate what I have been given, the lifestyle my parents have made available to me. There was some serious neglect going on in that book... but it was never overly depressing. Some parts of the book were sad, yes. But it showed how Walls made her way out of the homeless, somewhat nomadic lifestyle and into a settled, successful career as an author.
I suggest you ALL read this book. It's an easy read, and the pages almost turn themselves. =)
That's what the book looks like, in case you actually want to take my suggestion. =) Let me know if you have already read this book, if you plan on reading it... or if you think it looks like it sucks! I wanna hear it all. Also, I need some book recommendations... Without sunshine or books, my summer is incredibly lame.
Looooove. =) BYE!
Strength in Numbers Tag
Alright guys. It's about time I was a cheesy sap in public, don't you think? I watched a tag video from MacBarbie07 (a beauty channel on YouTube) about bullying, confidence, blah blah blah... I didn't want to do the tag video because I don't like being on camera... =P BUT I thought the questions were important. So... here we go.
CONFIDENCE:
CONFIDENCE:
- Have you ever felt unconfident before and why?
Of course. I'm sensitive about weird stuff. If anyone ever makes a jab at me, how I look, ... anything ... it upsets me, so I start to second guess myself.
- Do you lose confidence when you don't feel 'pretty'?
Yes I do! I try not to let it affect me - hence the frequent looking like crap. =) But I'm always a little more willing to be outgoing when I feel like I look good.
- What makes you feel confident about yourself?
Well I like myself for the most part. But just like you pick little parts of yourself to not like, you have to find the parts of yourself that you DO like. In my case... my freckles, hair color, lips, eyes... blahhh. You get it. =) Just focus on what you think is the good stuff, yo.
BULLYING:
BULLYING:
- Have you been bullied?
I'm afraid so. And it really wasn't even a severe case... but still. That SUCKS.
- Did you ever bully someone?
- Whether you were bullying or being bullied, how'd it make you feel?
- How do you deal with bullying?
These days, if someone says something about me to my face I'll confront them right then and there. Be like, "Yo, you're MEAN. What's the deal?" When you let someone know that they've hurt you, often they don't realize it... They usually apologize and knock it off. Weird, huh? But if someone is bullying someone else... I tend to speak up as well cuz I've been there... (Well, I try anyway. I'm not perfect.) But I've told people before to leave kids alone. Sometimes all it takes is one person to stick up for somebody.
INNER BEAUTY:
Okay. That was really cheesy, I KNOW. But maybe some people out there need to hear it. Right? If any of this is relevant to or struck a chord with you, please let me know. Ya'll know I love the comments. But ALSO if you would like to talk to me personally about any of this stuff, I would be more than willing to chat. Like I said, my situation was not extreme... but it still made a serious impression on me and the way I treat people. Please, if you want to, come talk to me. =)
Anyone who doesn't hate me for being overly sappy after this... I love you. =) Thanks for reading. BYYYYE!
INNER BEAUTY:
- Do nicer people seem more 'beautiful' to you?
- Does makeup make you feel prettier?
- What do you think of the expression 'beauty comes from the inside?'
Okay. That was really cheesy, I KNOW. But maybe some people out there need to hear it. Right? If any of this is relevant to or struck a chord with you, please let me know. Ya'll know I love the comments. But ALSO if you would like to talk to me personally about any of this stuff, I would be more than willing to chat. Like I said, my situation was not extreme... but it still made a serious impression on me and the way I treat people. Please, if you want to, come talk to me. =)
Anyone who doesn't hate me for being overly sappy after this... I love you. =) Thanks for reading. BYYYYE!
Monday, June 13, 2011
Not so sure about E-Books....
So I'm sure many of you cool cats out there own fancy shmancy technology that allows you to read books on an electronic device thingy. I'm not super tech savvy, forgive me for not knowing proper erm... jargon er somethin. ANYWAY like the Kindle or the Nook? iPad?
I was lusting after these bad boys for a while... but then I kinda remembered how much I LOVE reading books. Real books, where you can physically turn the pages, feel their weight... not to mention the smell! Is that important to anyone else?? My friends always make fun of me because I seem to sniff everything. But I think that when I open one of my much loved books and I get a whiff of it... it brings back memories of other times when I've read that particular book. It won't be quite the same on a small computer (thing).
Does this bother anyone else? I know that these tools are so practical... After all, books DO get heavy. Not to mention, it is probably cheaper to buy books after the price of the computer-thing itself. Call me old-fashioned.
Tell me what you think. I know many of you have these computer-things. I wanna know. Do you miss the regular sensations that come with a traditional book that you probably used to take for granted? Comment and such! BYYYYYYYYYYYYE. <3
**btw, I usually am inspired to write a blog just driving down the road. Isn't that silly? Drivin on the highway, POP! Books smell good! The smells make me think happy thoughts! xD Hmmm.. My life.
I was lusting after these bad boys for a while... but then I kinda remembered how much I LOVE reading books. Real books, where you can physically turn the pages, feel their weight... not to mention the smell! Is that important to anyone else?? My friends always make fun of me because I seem to sniff everything. But I think that when I open one of my much loved books and I get a whiff of it... it brings back memories of other times when I've read that particular book. It won't be quite the same on a small computer (thing).
Does this bother anyone else? I know that these tools are so practical... After all, books DO get heavy. Not to mention, it is probably cheaper to buy books after the price of the computer-thing itself. Call me old-fashioned.
Tell me what you think. I know many of you have these computer-things. I wanna know. Do you miss the regular sensations that come with a traditional book that you probably used to take for granted? Comment and such! BYYYYYYYYYYYYE. <3
**btw, I usually am inspired to write a blog just driving down the road. Isn't that silly? Drivin on the highway, POP! Books smell good! The smells make me think happy thoughts! xD Hmmm.. My life.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
I usually make harsh first opinions...
I usually make harsh first opinions... It's in my nature. Blah. At first, I REALLY HATED the song Price Tag by Jesse J... but I'm starting to change my opinion about it... It is so like me to just hate on a song without listening to all the words. I'll tell you first the things I didn't like about it: the chorus bugged me (no good reason), her name is Jesse J, and she said that she was 'paying in love tonight' - which really doesn't make sense. Anyway... I'll post the lyrics here...
PRICE TAG by JESSE J
SO! Maybe just from reading the lyrics you might understand why I originally hated this song. The chorus, which I think repeats more than shown here, has a good message but is rather obnoxious. It has the ble-bling-ble-bling in there to make it catchy, and also to make me hate it. And at the end it has a rap by B.O.B, who is usually rather obnoxious although his songs seem to always have good messages. And the end is stupid. I don't like it when people ooh at the end of a song. It's stupid. baha
So, since I've picked a lot of it apart.. what did I actually like about this song!?!?
It has really good sentiment... and a couple of the lines are BRILLIANT. I bolded them. =) "When the sale comes first and the truth comes second" How true, yo. I hate it when people try so hard to sell something that they apparently lose touch with reality... or (more probably) deceive the buyers into spending money on a product they actually know little about.
"You got shades on your eyes and your heels so high that you can't even have a good time" Now, don't get me wrong. I love to look pretty like the next girl. But when being attractive becomes your only focus, it's harder to enjoy the little things. Por ejemplo, I'm so focused on walking in heels that I'm having a hard time really paying attention to what my friend is saying. She spills her guts, but all I can think is "Don't trip!" ... sad.
This song just focuses on the things we deal with every day in such a materialistic society... Jesse J wants to bring us back to the simple things, focusing on relationships with real people as opposed to relationships with cell phones. That's a bit of a stretch - I'm putting my own spin on it now. In this age where access to communication is so easy... people have a hard time really communicating. Yikes.
Well now I'm talking about technology and communication as opposed to materialism and money. Crap. Whateverrrrr. =)
So tell me what you think. =) I love love LOVE reading comments, so get to commenting! I dare you to be as opinionated as I. Cuz seriously - who writes two blogs in one day!?!?!! Me. I do.
My questions for you:
1. Did you like the song the first time you heard it?
2. Do you like it now?
3. How do you feel about society's obsession with money?
4. Any other thoughts? Git it girl.
G'BYE! <3
Seems like everybody’s got a price,
I wonder how they sleep at night.
When the sale comes first,
And the truth comes second,
Just stop, for a minute and smile
Why is everybody so serious!
Acting so damn mysterious
You got your shades on your eyes
And your heels so high
That you can’t even have a good time.
Everybody look to their left (yeah)
Everybody look to their right (ha)
Can you feel that (yeah)
Well pay them with love tonight
It’s not about the money, money, money
We don’t need your money, money, money
We just wanna make the world dance,
Forget about the Price Tag
Ain’t about the (ha) Cha-Ching Cha-Ching.
Aint about the (yeah) Ba-Bling Ba-Bling
Wanna make the world dance,
Forget about the Price Tag.
We need to take it back in time,
When music made us all UNITE!
And it wasn’t low blows and video Hoes,
Am I the only one gettin tired?
Why is everybody so obsessed?
Money can’t buy us happiness
Can we all slow down and enjoy right now
Guarantee we’ll be feelin
All right.
Everybody look to their left (yeah)
Everybody look to their right (ha)
Can you feel that (yeah)
Well pay them with love tonight
Yeah yeah
Well, keep the price tag
And take the cash back
Just give me six streams and a half stack
And you can keep the cars
Leave me the garage
And all I..
Yes all I need are keys and garage
And guess what, in 30 seconds I’m leaving to Mars
Yes we leaving across these undefeatable odds
Its like this man, you can’t put a price on life
We do this for the love so we fight and sacrifice everynight
So we aint gon stumble and fall never
Waiting to see, a sign of defeat uh uh
So we gon keep everyone moving there feet
So bring back the beat and everybody sing
It’s not about
Yeah yeah
Oo-oooh
Forget about the price tag.
I wonder how they sleep at night.
When the sale comes first,
And the truth comes second,
Just stop, for a minute and smile
Why is everybody so serious!
Acting so damn mysterious
You got your shades on your eyes
And your heels so high
That you can’t even have a good time.
Everybody look to their left (yeah)
Everybody look to their right (ha)
Can you feel that (yeah)
Well pay them with love tonight
It’s not about the money, money, money
We don’t need your money, money, money
We just wanna make the world dance,
Forget about the Price Tag
Ain’t about the (ha) Cha-Ching Cha-Ching.
Aint about the (yeah) Ba-Bling Ba-Bling
Wanna make the world dance,
Forget about the Price Tag.
We need to take it back in time,
When music made us all UNITE!
And it wasn’t low blows and video Hoes,
Am I the only one gettin tired?
Why is everybody so obsessed?
Money can’t buy us happiness
Can we all slow down and enjoy right now
Guarantee we’ll be feelin
All right.
Everybody look to their left (yeah)
Everybody look to their right (ha)
Can you feel that (yeah)
Well pay them with love tonight
Yeah yeah
Well, keep the price tag
And take the cash back
Just give me six streams and a half stack
And you can keep the cars
Leave me the garage
And all I..
Yes all I need are keys and garage
And guess what, in 30 seconds I’m leaving to Mars
Yes we leaving across these undefeatable odds
Its like this man, you can’t put a price on life
We do this for the love so we fight and sacrifice everynight
So we aint gon stumble and fall never
Waiting to see, a sign of defeat uh uh
So we gon keep everyone moving there feet
So bring back the beat and everybody sing
It’s not about
Yeah yeah
Oo-oooh
Forget about the price tag.
SO! Maybe just from reading the lyrics you might understand why I originally hated this song. The chorus, which I think repeats more than shown here, has a good message but is rather obnoxious. It has the ble-bling-ble-bling in there to make it catchy, and also to make me hate it. And at the end it has a rap by B.O.B, who is usually rather obnoxious although his songs seem to always have good messages. And the end is stupid. I don't like it when people ooh at the end of a song. It's stupid. baha
So, since I've picked a lot of it apart.. what did I actually like about this song!?!?
It has really good sentiment... and a couple of the lines are BRILLIANT. I bolded them. =) "When the sale comes first and the truth comes second" How true, yo. I hate it when people try so hard to sell something that they apparently lose touch with reality... or (more probably) deceive the buyers into spending money on a product they actually know little about.
"You got shades on your eyes and your heels so high that you can't even have a good time" Now, don't get me wrong. I love to look pretty like the next girl. But when being attractive becomes your only focus, it's harder to enjoy the little things. Por ejemplo, I'm so focused on walking in heels that I'm having a hard time really paying attention to what my friend is saying. She spills her guts, but all I can think is "Don't trip!" ... sad.
This song just focuses on the things we deal with every day in such a materialistic society... Jesse J wants to bring us back to the simple things, focusing on relationships with real people as opposed to relationships with cell phones. That's a bit of a stretch - I'm putting my own spin on it now. In this age where access to communication is so easy... people have a hard time really communicating. Yikes.
Well now I'm talking about technology and communication as opposed to materialism and money. Crap. Whateverrrrr. =)
So tell me what you think. =) I love love LOVE reading comments, so get to commenting! I dare you to be as opinionated as I. Cuz seriously - who writes two blogs in one day!?!?!! Me. I do.
My questions for you:
1. Did you like the song the first time you heard it?
2. Do you like it now?
3. How do you feel about society's obsession with money?
4. Any other thoughts? Git it girl.
G'BYE! <3
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
It's FINALLY Summer!
Yesterday was my first real day of summer. I finally put on the swimsuit, went to the beach, and actually saw the sun. =) SO! To celebrate this, I wanted to do a blog about it... and I decided that I'd talk about what was in my beach bag. Whoo! I watch a lot of videos on YouTube dealing with beauty and stuff... so bear with me. haha
Let's do it.
This is my "beach bag"! Mostly it's just a random bag that I have. I can put beachy things in it, and I don't care if it gets wet. Perfect! Moving right along. =)
Now you need your beach towel. I like pretty, bright colored towels. Don't we all? Roll it up and it's easy to shove in the bag. Boom!
The single most important item in the whole bag! SUNSCREEN. Please use it. Even if you only use SPF 15, it's better than nothing. I don't usually use such a high SPF like I used the other day... but I think I'm going to start. I'm very pale, so I burn really easily. Btw, when you apply sunscreen... you're supposed to apply 30 minutes before sun exposure, and then reapply every two hours after that. Just an FYI deal. =)
Now for practicality. My cell phone and wallet with money and ID. Common sense people! =)
Sunglasses! Not as important to me as they are to other people... but if I ever lay out at all I need them.
Of course, at the beach, I pretty much just let my hair do its own thing. But if I want it out of my way I'll either use a hair tie (not pictured. baha) or a clip. I sometimes use this spray gel too to give it a little extra oomph. =)
Okay, honestly, who wears makeup to the beach? The girl with bad skin who just so happens to also be obsessed with makeup. =) Hear me out! The foundation has SPF 17, I believe, which I just use to mattify the face region after applying sunscreen. =) The mascara is waterproof, so it stays on while I'm swimming. And the lip gloss is cooling and also has SPF 20, so it protects me and cools me down all while making my lips look juicy. Boom baby!
And that's it! WHOO! Thanks for stopping by guys.
What do you keep in YOUR beach bag?
Byyyyye. <3
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